meeting someone with the same music taste is seriously the best thing ever
I believe that if you are torn between having sex or not is a sign that you’re not actually ready. Sure we all bounce that thought around in our heads at some point in our lives but most of the time it’s because we aren’t sure, this is why so many people regret it. Not all people regret it because they accept that it’s gone and are grateful it was with somebody they are pleased to have shared the experience with. Others rush into it and then when things don’t work out, they feel hurt to have shared with their ex partner. I personally wish that I had waited until I met Antony (my bf) but at the same time, I don’t regret it at all because I wouldn’t have my beautiful daughter if I had waited, if I could go back and change it all, I wouldn’t.
It’s a choice you have to make because it is your life which will be affected by it and nobody else has a say in that. If you do go through with it, make sure that you are ready to deal with everything that may come with it. You love your bf and I understand the need to be that much closer to the person you love. I know what it is like to want that intimacy. But you have to remember that things might not last forever between you. As horrible as it is, you have to know that you will be okay with the choices you make now so that if things don’t work out, you don’t regret it and you don’t resent yourself or him.
It’s a hard choice and it’s is yours to make… Plenty of women have sex and then get married in a white dress. I know the white is a symbol of purity, but those are ancient traditions. We don’t live in biblical times anymore. The world is forever changing and we all have to change with it. Don’t repress yourself by ancient history. Your life, your choices x